“When people receive a cancer diagnosis, they often experience a range of emotions – fear, denial, depression and anger,” explains Jim Ferguson, oncology chaplain at Park Nicollet Frauenshuh Cancer Center. “And everyone deals with it differently.”

Cancer is a disease that affects people on every level – physically, mentally and spiritually. With help from doctors, psychologists and chaplains, patients can find the support and inner strength to fight this disease from all these levels.

Embracing what is
Ferguson has been a chaplain at Park Nicollet for 18 years and seen many people get overwhelmed by a cancer diagnosis, its related information and choices. “This is a time of transition, and many patients and family members are working to make sense of it,” he says. “We can help them tap into what gives them strength, comfort and hope during this difficult time.”

One area that may bring the most tension is a desire to return to what was a normal life. “This can be a difficult period of adjustment, and it can create a deep sense of loss for what was,” Ferguson says. For others, an experience with cancer can mean a new beginning. The changes that have taken place stem from a redemptive process. Although life may never be the same, many feel they have been given a second chance.

“To help process what is versus what was, allow yourself room to grieve the losses you may be feeling,” he continues. “Embrace what is normal for you and allow yourself room to adapt to the changes that have taken place.”

Supportive listening
Cancer often forces people to reexamine their lives, relationships and purpose. Some can do this hard work themselves; others may need to talk it through with someone. Often, one of the best ways Ferguson can help is by listening.

“This is not passive listening,” Ferguson explains. “People are looking for support, compassion and direction. Talking with someone about what is troubling them and causing distress can lead to a sense of inner peace. This may create a breakthrough that opens the door to what options are before them.”

Finding inner strength
Over the years, Ferguson has heard many patients say they are “spiritual,” even though they do not necessarily practice a traditional religion. To help everyone on their spiritual journey, Ferguson helps them get in touch with their inner strength – whether it is through prayer, meditation, reflection, ritual or talking. “I have found that people have a story to tell. Often, as they share their stories, they realize what they have endured throughout their lives. Many are reminded of the faithfulness of God, which now gives them hope for the present,” Ferguson says.

The new Frauenshuh Cancer Center welcomes people of all religions and beliefs. It has a traditional chapel and a more secular meditation room. Both spaces are comfortable and inviting.

Ferguson says he is just one of many people who helps patients cope with the emotional and spiritual challenges of cancer. “Our entire staff is sensitive to the many different issues that surround cancer, helping not just our patients, but also their family members and caregivers.”

To learn more about coping with the spiritual challenges of cancer, call 952-993-3248 or visit parknicollet.com/cancer.